Women In 3D's Pledge...

Please repeat after me ... I will continue to move Forward, toward the life of My dreams. I will Not allow Anyone or Anything to deter nor stop me. I will strive for Greatness because I am worth it. I am as Great as I Believe I am. I am a Woman in 3D...Diverse, Determined and Destined. Let's get it Ladies...Love you ALL and Thank You for all of the support, I can't tell you how much it is appreciated!!! xoxo

Looking Forward...

The other day while taking a stroll through the park two young girls jogged by me. Both appearing very carefree, laughing and like me just enjoying the weather and atmosphere. They looked about high school aged. As I watched these young girls all I thought of was "I remember those days". The days of not having a care in the world. When my biggest worries were what I was wearing to school or what I was doing over the weekend. Then I thought.... Wow to have your whole life before you. To have your whole future to still look forward to. Those things you stress over today that seem so big now yet years later they will seem so irrelevant. It made me stop and think about if I could go back to those days what would I redo. We all have at one point or another did this. Some just ran things through their minds, some spoke them out loud and others like me jotted them down. The thing about doing this is that ...it is Okay to acknowledge these things. Acknowledge the areas where we may have slacked but also know it is Never too late! A smart person came up with the saying, "It's not about how you begin but rather how you end that matters" (author unknown). Those two girls gave me a boost without knowing it. I remembered old promises I had made to myself. I remembered goals still undone. I vowed right there to go harder. To stay grounded and yet to soar. To not let go of my vision and my purpose and My Happy! See I never stopped dreaming (Thank God). I never gave up on me. However life did happen in a sequence that I wasn't always prepared for. Life happened when I wasn't always ready. Life happened while I was busy making plans. But Now ...in that moment of witnessing youth and Hope and an unknownn future passing by me I realized that my work is truly undone. I started to encourage Myself right there on that trail. I said "My future is unknown yet I have the power to make it Great". I reminded myself that though my steps may be small they're still moving forward. That although I'm not where I thought I would be at this stage in the game I never gave up. I went with what was presented based on my decisions. I made the most of my circumstances and kept moving (forward). So as I watched those two young ladies I put a pep in my step and said "I still got it, I still have so much to do/offer". I'm glad that I was able to realize it. Those two girls re-ignited my drive. I wish the best for them. I hope they have Bright, Purposeful and Amazing lives (the life of their dreams). In short what I'm saying is YOU still have time!! As long as there is breath in your body it is Not too late. You and Me were meant to live a Fabulous life, let's keep working on living it!

Women In 3D...: Dream and Keep Dreaming...

Women In 3D...: Dream and Keep Dreaming...: Dream... Dream Big...Because Dreams do come true. As I'm watching Candice Glover's performances that led her to win season 12 of A...

Dream and Keep Dreaming...

Dream... Dream Big...Because Dreams do come true. As I'm watching Candice Glover's performances that led her to win season 12 of American Idol, I am getting goosebumps. Watching her achieve her dream had to be a Huge moment. To start out with only a dream and a vision...leaving your little town with your outcome unknown, hoping to make it through the auditions and then to win it all. That's definitely a WOW moment. Take a moment to just imagine the feeling... I am definitely a fan of Ms. Candice Glover (she was my pick all season) so seeing her win was amazing. Her winning put some things into perspective for me. That Dreams Absolutely Do Come True!!! Things may not work out the first time you venture out (Candice auditioned for American Idol on 2 separate seasons before coming back this season) but you must keep at it. You must hold on to the vision that maybe only YOU see. Maybe others haven't grasped your vision or aren't fully onboard. Yet you see it and know that is it attainable Do Not Lose that vision! Sometimes when things do not happen as we planned (right away) we give up. We lose our vision, we allow the pressure/disappointment to break us. Instead use those emotions to add more fuel to your drive. Give your all, Put in the work and most importantly Do Not Lose Your Vision! Remember keep dreaming... Dream Big...Because dreams Do come true. After all you were meant to live a Fabulous life so start working on living it.

Women In 3D...: Sometimes it's hard to smile

Women In 3D...: Sometimes it's hard to smile: Call it an over the 30 hill crisis but I've been having down days lately, where it's been too hard to smile. It's been easier ju...

Sometimes it's hard to smile

Call it an over the 30 hill crisis but I've been having down days lately, where it's been too hard to smile. It's been easier just to sulk. I've spent quite a bit of time asking questions to things beyond my control and just feeling blah. Considering I'm in Michigan maybe it's the weather that has me feeling the blues. Or maybe every step forward seems to be followed by 2 steps back But I'm still trudging along. Regardless of how bad I feel on those off days I won't allow myself to stay there. But sometimes I've just felt like feeling sorry for myself, my disappointments and wanting to wallow in self-pity. I've asked myself things like why couldn't my children have both parents in the home? Why doesn't my children's father do more or at least put forth more effort? Why does my mom have to be sickly? Why do I feel like I'm starting over? Why am I not where I want to be in life? What changes do I need to make to expedite things? So as you can see I've really been on a roll with my thoughts. I've really been feeling some type of way. I've just felt like it's hard not to ask these questions. Sometimes it's hard to look past your issues. Sometimes you do just want to be mad, feel down and upset and ask questions that really have no "good" answer. So as much as my mind went there I also had these thoughts to take me out of my funk. What purpose would it serve to keep feeling down? Is it helping me and/or bettering me to feel this way? The answer ...probably not. See we do need to acknowledge those thoughts and emotions because they are real. The thing is you cannot get caught up in them. Life isn't perfect and it isn't always fair. That's just the reality of things. There will be days that seem like your smile, your positivity, your progress is nonexistent. In those moments scream, shout, yell, cry ...do whatever you need to do to get those feelings out. Then dry your tears, take a deep breath and with your head held high keep moving forward. If you have a setback acknowledge it, they happen but they are not meant to make you stop! They are only meant to make you work harder, to recognize any mistakes and to teach you strength. When you find yourself feeling down, in the middle of a setback or just having a difficult time do like me and repeat these words... 1. There is more for me. 2. There is better for me. 3. I'm not done. 4. Anything God brings me to, He will bring me through. Say it over and over until you believe it. Say it until those feelings of uncertainty pass and your smile returns. There are ups and downs to life. Things will happen that make no sense. There will be things that we wish we could change. To those thoughts also keep in mind that trouble doesn't last always. Everything isn't for you to necessarily understand but you do need to trust that everything will work itself out just as it's suppose to. To every "thing" that we face there is a lesson and usually a Blessing. So as I go through my over the hill crisis I'm also learning. I'm learning things about myself, I'm learning that things do not have to happen in my time for things to turn out right. Most of all I've learned that in spite of all the stuff going on there is Always a reason to smile! I know I was meant to live a Fabulous life and I mean to live it (smiling). Thanks for taking the time to read my blog I hope you enjoyed it and that it helps if you find yourself feeling down. My blogs are meant to encourage you and help you know you are not alone. Please share any comments and take the time to SUBSCRIBE. Also like my Facebook page at www.facebook.com/womenin3D Thanks Again!

New Year, New Me ....

New Year...New Me...I don't like that saying, its too cliche. If at the start of a new year we could just change ...what was going on those other 364 days? It's deeper than that. Each new day we're presented with a chance to start anew. So why wait for a new year to start before you start your change? In order to make lasting changes, you must change the way you think. Our thoughts can control our lives! Have you ever heard "as a man thinketh he is" or "we are what we think". Or quotes very similiar to these? Well these sayings are so true. How you think on a situation or think about yourself speaks volumes. Think positive and think believing in your change. You must believe whatever this great thing is that you want to do, be or achieve that you Can and you Will. You must believe that you are capable, deserving and worthy. Once you believe it and put the work into action, who can stop you but you? We are our own worst enemy. Within us is the power to succeed or fail. It all begins on how we think on the situation. So if you want to change you can. Instead of New Year, New Me let's say New Day, New Thoughts and More Focus! Remember stay positive, Productive, and realize your Potential! We all were meant to live a Fabulous life so let's start living it! Ladies, sorry for the break but I'm back. I hope the New Year found you in good health and spirits and ready to give your all toward living the life of your dreams!