THINK POSITIVE. BE POSITIVE.

These days I'm all about positivity. We see so much negative around us already that I've made the conscience decision not to engage with negative people. Bottom line ...I'm not allowing anyone to take me out of my element. Period! It's not worth it.
 When we allow ourselves to think positively we find ourselves involved in more positive things in our lives. I'm a firm believer in karma, you get what you put out. You reap what you sow. You are who you surround yourself with.
 We (as women) deal with a lot day to day. We already have so much responsibility so why add to an already full plate? Sure we'll face hard times, difficult moments and difficult people but we can still take something from each of these situations. Because there are lessons to be learned in most situations that arise in our life. The biggest one is how will we respond when we are facing something negative or unpleasant. These are the moments that show our true character.
 So instead of allowing yourself to entertain negativity find the positive in your life and put your focus there. As much as we can help it let's begin to surround ourselves around those people and things that add to our lives. Thinking and Being positive is the new focus for our lives.
 Ladies let's take on a new approach, instead of giving your precious time and energy to a negative person/situation ask yourself a couple questions:
1. How is this person/thing bettering me in any way?
2. After it is said and done what substance has been added to my life?   
 See the thing about negative people is that they find their pleasure in getting you to react in a way unlike yourself. That makes them feel like they have some type of power when they can get you riled up. The truth is no one should have that type of control over you. You are better than what they are perceiving you as. My dad once told me it makes you more powerful to walk away from some situations and people. The control they thought they had to get at you,  affect your mood, make you react in a way that you won't feel good about later...take all that away. That would eat at them more than you always reacting to their negativity. Try it!!
 Focus on doing those things that make you happy and that you enjoy. Surround yourself with people who not only avoid drama but who also want to move forward in life.
And if you ever find yourself giving in to the nonsense...get back on the positive road ASAP! Don't give time or energy to the things that try to take you back, remove yourself and keep moving forward.
At the end of the day you want your positives to outweigh the negative. When you think Positive thoughts you'll learn to be Positive.
You were meant to live a Fabulous and Positive life ...Let's live it Ladies!!!